You’re ready to pop the 4-word question and smartly decide to propose in Paris with the Eiffel Tower as your backdrop. Yet, it can be a little nerve-wracking to plan a romantic surprise proposal in a foreign country.

If you’re like the rest of us, you still have questions about unique Eiffel Tower proposal ideas, the best spots, choosing the right proposal package, and whether to enlist a planner.

We encourage you first to check out the most common questions we get below.

There are no rules that say you cannot propose on the Eiffel Tower.

However, it’s not recommended since many curious onlookers will surround you. Getting engaged on an iron tower in plain public view does not really sound fun. And there’s no chance to personalize your proposal setting, so forget about a romantic atmosphere.

When you and your partner come to the City of Love to get engaged, she might expect the perfect Eiffel Tower proposal.

Private Eiffel Tower proposal on the Secret Table
When you fly your sweetheart to the City of Love to get engaged, she will likely expect a surprise proposal with the iconic monument as the backdrop.
Paris proposal photographer Private Eiffel Tower Rooftop Proposal
The cost of an Eiffel Tower proposal depends on multiple factors—notably on the location, the level of luxury, the quality of vendors, and a host of other elements.

Ultimately, it depends on the scope of your marriage proposal. Some minimalists can theoretically get away with “just” hiring a local surprise proposal photographer (a.k.a. paparazzi proposals), which will run approximately €300.

We would, at a minimum, recommend adding a beautiful bouquet of long-stemmed red roses and chilled Champagne. It’s an affordable gesture and demonstrates effort and forethought.

But when you want to go beyond basic to create something glamorous where every detail feels personalized, expect to invest accordingly.

Privatizing a hotel rooftop, adding beautiful floral arrangements, a sumptuous red carpet, master musicians, fireworks, Marry Me Letters, and coordinating talented vendors comes at a cost. Luxury wedding proposals can easily run thousands of Euros.

When your Paris engagement concept involves multiple moving parts, or you’re a busy person with little patience to negotiate with French vendors, consider hiring a Paris-based proposal planner.

Paris wedding proposal planner
A resourceful local planner in Paris will ensure a stress-free experience while saving you time and potentially costly missteps.

A seasoned wedding proposal planner will help with anything from simple to extraordinary and anything in between. Her job is to listen, inspire, organize, and execute.

All you need to do is show up and celebrate this profoundly special moment with your partner.

Frequently requested services include sourcing the perfect place to propose (i.e., exclusive residential rooftop or hotel terrace, private river yacht, fairytale French Chateau), orchestra-level musicians, swoon-worthy decor & floral designs, fine-dining with butler, hotel suite embellishment, photo & video, personalized scavenger hunt concepts, and more.

Paris proposal planner Chantelle with Oprah Winfrey
Celebrity planner, Chantelle-Marie, with Oprah Winfrey.

The location decision is so important that we added an entire section to help you identify the perfect Eiffel Tower proposal spot. The setting determines privacy, timeline flexibility, weather contingencies, and ambiance.

The environment you create will affect your partner’s five senses and how she remembers the big moment.

You should differentiate between:

  • public Eiffel Tower proposal settings (free of charge and widely accessible to anyone); and
  • Private Eiffel Tower spots (you pay a premium in return for exclusivity and privacy).

Expect real benefits when you privatize your setting.

Private Eiffel Tower Proposal Shangri La Paris terrace
The Secret Table is one of the more romantic places to celebrate your engagement.

Here are the most popular public spots (in no particular order):

Trocadero is the most famous and instantly recognizable public Eiffel Tower location. While you should expect spectacular views for your big moment, we only recommend Trocadero around sunrise unless you enjoy curious onlookers.

Romantic surprise proposal with Eiffel Tower
When you’re after a stress-free, romantic surprise proposal with Eiffel Tower views, consider investing in a private rooftop terrace.

The Seine River is more secluded than Trocadero. However, the approach to getting to the perfect spot can be challenging in high heels. Plus, since this location is quite close to the Iron Lady, your Paris photographer will likely use a wide-angle lens, which is a tad less flattering. The River works pretty well except when a nearby wall casts a shadow on your spot while the sun simultaneously exposes the Tower. Also, when you value private spots, the river is not for you since, at any given time, there may be multiple set-ups right next to yours.

Public Eiffel Tower Proposal by the Seine River
Unique Eiffel Tower proposal ideas: raise the production level and enhance the mood with a sumptuous red carpet and eye-catching floral arrangements.

A Hollywood favorite, Pont de Bir Hakeim is among the most beautiful bridges in the City of Lights. It works better in the early morning than in the afternoon or evening. Yet, Bir Hakeim Bridge is neither a romantic nor a quiet place. Flanked by streets from both sides, the bridge can feel stressful. On a positive note, it’s a brilliant rain alternative when you have your heart set on an Eiffel Tower surprise proposal.

Pont de Bir Hakeim Eiffel Tower Proposal
Pont de Bir Hakeim with Brazilian dancers cheering on the newly engaged.

Alexander III is among the most beautiful bridges in town; it offers a more subtle view of the Tower and photographs well any time of the day. However, for enhanced privacy, try early morning or Midnight in Paris.

Alexander iii bridge Paris proposal early morning
Alexander iii is among the most dreamy bridges imaginable. Expect postcard-worthy views, albeit a more subtle perspective of the Iron Lady.

Here are a few amazing private Eiffel Tower proposal spots (in no particular order):

The Secret Table at the Peninsula Paris is easily accessible without giving away the surprise proposal. It’s reassuring that things always run smoothly at this Palace Hotel with time-tested processes and spectacular service. Expect soothing privacy and unpretentious luxury. The most romantic time to pop the question at the Secret Table is around sunset or during the so-called Blue Hour. A seasoned vendor team and proposal planner are almost compulsory.

Secret Table Peninsula Paris proposal
The Secret Table rooftop at the Peninsula offers the perfect space for awe-inspiring set-ups with the Eiffel Tower as the backdrop.

The Shangri La Hotel Paris is an exceptional alternative to the Secret Table and is considered by many to be the most romantic surprise proposal spot. You’ll need to rent an Eiffel Tower suite with an exclusive deck. Typically, a floral designer will embellish your terrace while you’re out exploring the City. Hire a professional vendor team and enlist an experienced planner. Consider surprise-embellishing your hotel suite and enjoy private dining with a butler as the Eiffel Tower twinkles at a distance.

Shangri La Hotel Eiffel Tower Proposal at night
Shangri La is an exclusive spot to celebrate unforgettable moments. Consider a romantic dinner when you book one of the suites with private balconies.
It is not cliche to propose in Paris at the Eiffel Tower
Dreamy public surprise proposal at Trocadero at sunrise with two musicians serenading the couple.

The way we understand cliche is that it’s something that has lost its appeal due to overuse. The truth is that Paris is and will always be special. No other place on the planet even comes close.

Sure, the City of Love is not for everyone and does not pretend to be. Still, thanks to its iconic locations to propose, uber-romantic hotels and restaurants, and experienced English-speaking vendors, it’s hard to conceive of a better choice.

The ideal time of the day to propose in Paris is when you feel most energized and happy.

Factors such as biorhythm, jet lag, availability of vendors and locations, dinner reservations, and other factors can make a real difference.

That said, our favorite times of the day are sunrise and evening (including the so-called Blue Hour).

Sunrise Marriage Proposal—The “Golden Hour.”

Sunrise is the time when the sun slowly appears over the horizon in the morning. Specific sunrise times depend on the time of the year and can start as early as 5.45 AM in June and as late as 8.45 AM around New Year.

Surprise Proposal at the Eiffel Tower at sunrise
Surprise Proposal at the Eiffel Tower as part of a planned photoshoot.

Advantages of making your Paris proposal at sunrise:

  • it is the only time of the day to get popular Parisian public photo spots largely devoid of distracting crowds and overzealous vendors;
  • expect some of the softest and most flattering lighting conditions;
  • excellent opportunity to transition into a fun couple photoshoot and get actual engagement photos;
  • You may already get a same-day edited sneak peek of your proposal photos to share with family and friends.

Reasons not to get engaged at sunrise:

  • You need a compelling reason to shake your partner out of bed in time and without spilling the beans. Being late is not an option.
  • Sunrise tends to be less romantic than the evening.
  • Waking up early often means less sleep and hurried (or no) breakfast, which may result in stress—the last thing you want before such a life-changing occasion.

Evening (twilight) photo sessions—the “Blue Hour.”

The period when the day ends and the night begins. Specific sunset times depend on the time of the year and can start as early as 4.50 PM around New Year and as late as 10:00 PM in June.

Advantages of an evening engagement:

  • The most magically romantic time of the day to propose in Paris;
  • soft, flattering light ensures no squinting in photos, no blown-out shadow details in your outfits, and no distracting shadows;
  • a priceless opportunity to get daylight, the Blue Hour, and even some nighttime photos within a single hour;
  • You also have time to incorporate a game-changing themed surprise proposal concept (e.g., Midnight in Paris) and/or a scavenger hunt;
  • Romantic dinner reservations and other entertainment flow more naturally;
  • A later starting time means you have the opportunity to hire a professional beauty artist.
Private Eiffel Tower Proposal at Shangri La Hotel Nighttime
Romantic evening private Eiffel Tower Proposal at the Shangri-La Hotel in Paris.

Reasons not to propose in the evening:

  • Some popular public locations are not really an option due to crowds;
  • You’re less likely to receive a preview of a few same-day edited proposal photos.

People propose in Paris because it’s an incredible place to pop the question when your partner values a romantic destination engagement.

Paris is not for everyone … and does not even pretend to be. Yet, we think the City of Lights is the ultimate playground for couples, and here’s why:

  • From its trendy shopping streets to the carefree Bohemian spirit of the Left Bank, Paris tempts and inspires with lively cafés, world-renowned art & architecture, and countless hidden nooks to steal a few innocent French kisses.
  • Paris boasts many postcard-worthy spots ranging from iconic public Eiffel Tower settings to ultra-chic private yachts, five-star hotel rooftops, and straight-out-of-a-movie French chateaux.
  • It’s relatively straightforward to identify experienced English-speaking vendors to help you pull off your dream wedding proposal across time zones and from thousands of miles away.
  • Paris is always a good idea, right? You’ll certainly not run out of fun things to do as freshly minted fiancés. Here are the 6 most romantic places in Paris to kiss.

Where are the most charming places to propose in Paris with Eiffel Tower views?

Perfect Eiffel Tower Proposal Spots

The engagement setting impacts privacy, timeline management, control over weather contingencies, and other experience-related elements.

Critically, the environment (and ambiance) you create will affect your partner’s five senses and how she’ll remember getting engaged.

It helps to differentiate between:

  • Public proposals at the Eiffel Tower (free of charge and widely accessible to anyone); and
  • Private Eiffel Tower settings (you pay a premium in return for exclusivity and privacy).

Residential rooftops, commercial hotel terraces, private balconies, and yachts—are not always prettier than their public alternative. Yet, expect major benefits when you privatize a space.

I was unsure how to best surprise my soon-to-be fiancée while visiting Paris. I discovered Chantelle from Kiss Me in Paris with only days left to nail down the creative details. Oh, WOW, did she deliver! Our engagement was magical, surreal, and even better than we imagined. Now married, we regularly reminisce about Paris and how important Chantelle was in making our dreams come true. I cannot recommend her and the company enough..

Jonathan McNabb

Private Eiffel Tower engagements (exclusive commercial rooftops & terraces)

Where to propose in Paris: The Shangri La Paris private rooftop

Shangri-La Eiffel Tower Proposal​

Look no further if you want divine privacy and some of Paris’s most spectacular Eiffel Tower views. An experienced planner is highly recommended.​

Winter-white Peninsula Hotel Paris Proposal

The Secret Table Paris Proposal​

One of the premier private Eiffel Tower rooftops in Paris, the Secret Table makes it easy to personalize a fairytale proposal setting. An experienced local planner is highly recommended.​

best private rooftops in Paris for marriage proposals

Marignan Champs-Elysées​

Another centrally located 5-star Parisian hotel rooftop terrace with breathtaking Eiffel Tower views. Ask your party planner to embellish the setting for you. Then, have a sleek private butler serve your first Champagne as newly engaged.

Four Seasons Hotel George V, Paris Marriage Proposal

George V Four Seasons​

When you’re after the most exclusive rooftop in Paris with the Iron Lady as the backdrop, then the “Penthouse” at the George V should be at the top of your shortlist. An experienced event planner is almost obligatory.​

Famous public Eiffel Tower locations

Famous Eiffel Tower proposal location in Paris

The Trocadero Surprise Proposal​

The most iconic and instantly recognizable public Eiffel Tower proposal spot. While you should expect spectacular views for your big moment, we only recommend Trocadero around sunrise unless you enjoy curious onlookers. Not necessarily romantic. Show up by sunrise to avoid crowds, vendors, and other photoshoots. Note: the central plaza and the right flank of the platform are currently under construction.​

Famous Eiffel Tower marriage proposal spot along the River Seine

The Seine River Eiffel Tower Proposal​

More private than Trocadero, the River Seine is as close to the Eiffel Tower as you can propose. The approach to getting to the perfect spot can be challenging in high heels. This setting benefits from embellishment and works most of the day except when the nearby wall casts a shadow on your proposal spot while the sun exposes the Iron Lady.​

Best Eiffel Tower marriage proposal spots Bir-Hakeim Bridge

Pont de Bir-Hakeim Bridge Proposal​

A rain alternative to Trocadero, Pont de Bir-Hakeim works thanks to its distinctive architecture and prominent Eiffel Tower view. Whether you propose under the bridge or on an adjacent peninsula, sunrise works a little better than evening. The bridge is neither particularly romantic nor private since pedestrians share the lower level with motor vehicles.​

Unexpected places to propose in Paris: Alexander III Bridge

Alexander III Surprise Proposal​

Among the most elegant and beautiful bridges in Paris, Alexander III offers more subtle views of the Iron Lady—photographs well most of the day. However, for enhanced privacy, propose at sunrise or Midnight in Paris.​

Unexpected places to propose in Paris with Eiffel Tower view (private)

Romantic Paris Scavenger Hunt Proposal with private yacht Eiffel Tower view

Private Yacht Eiffel Tower Engagement

Are you after a mind-blowing, unique, and drop-dead gorgeous Eiffel Tower engagement—and have a healthy proposal budget? Then a private yacht on the Seine River is the ultimate romantic setting. It’s impossible to pull this proposal concept off without a top-notch planner and, ideally, an experienced Eiffel Tower proposal photographer.​

Little-known residential Parisian rooftop proposal spots

Private Paris rooftop proposal with Paris proposal planner Chant

Eiffel Tower private Copernic rooftop proposal (residential)

Pinned countless times, this Kiss Me in Paris exclusive rooftop dazzles with breathtaking Eiffel Tower views and endless opportunities to embellish and delight.​

Luxury paris proposal ideas

Champs-Élysées private terrace proposal (residential)​

This remarkable Kiss Me in Paris exclusive rooftop offers vast views of the iron lady, Arc de Triomphe, and even Montmartre. It’s well-suited to host numerous vendors and even your family, thanks to its large size.​

Eiffel Tower Rooftop Proposal with Marry Me letters

We’d be delighted to customize an Eiffel Tower Proposal with romantic touches for you.

Romantic Eiffel Tower proposal packages.

Memorable ways to propose in Paris

What truly sets us apart is that we obsess about your experience, so you don’t have to. Expect exceptional attention to detail with clear, responsive communication in English. Your expectations should be sky-high when you work with us. If you can imagine it, we can typically make it happen!

I’ve worked with many professional photographers over the years, and Cengiz is definitely the #1 in Paris! Cengiz, you managed to memorialize our client’s amazing wedding proposal—I cannot wait to work with you over and over again.

Soraya Zidoun, Luxury Bespoke Concierge

It depends on the experience and reputation of the planner, the level of customization, and the involvement in planning and executing your proposal.

Most Parisian planners offer multiple proposal packages based on the expected complexity and time commitment. One person may just want his planner to secure and embellish a private rooftop, whereas others will ask for an entire fun-filled day of mini-events, secret hotel suite embellishment, luxury transport, and more.

Expect to pay anywhere from a few hundred euros for simple coordination to several thousand euros for more ambitious projects. Top-notch event planners often charge a percentage of the entire planning budget.

How good would it feel to know that regardless of what may happen—bad weather, a last-second vendor cancellation, or even a delay in the timeline—all you need to do is show up, and everything will be perfect for you and your loved one.
How good would it feel to know that regardless of what may happen—bad weather, a last-second vendor cancellation, or even a flight delay—all you need to do is show up to enjoy the perfect Eiffel Tower engagement.

Here are 7 classic proposal packages, including Eiffel Tower proposal ideas.

Popular requests for proposal-related services include photography, video, floral design, suite surprise embellishment, musicians (violin, harpist, saxophone, or guitar), private dining for two, Champagne table with personalized macarons, vintage or luxury car …

As Paris’s premier proposal and wedding planner, we are local experts with unparalleled vendor connections and know-how. That means we can often pull off fabulous marriage proposals even on short notice. If you can imagine it, we can typically make it happen!

When you book an experienced proposal planner, you can focus on what matters most.
When you book an experienced planner, you can focus on what matters most.


The way we see it, Trocadero, Pont des Arts, Rue de l’Universitée, or Notre Dame are iconic locations but not necessarily romantic.

When you invest in a private Eiffel Tower proposal location, you should expect a stress-free experience with the important benefits:

  • More timeline flexibility;
  • Greater control over the atmosphere, including lighting and staging, design and decor, and anything else that affects your mood;
  • Ability to determine who can access your setting while keeping curious onlookers at bay.

We differentiate between Palace hotels and residential rooftops, a private River cruise, and nearby French châteaux.

Some of our favorite luxury hotels include the Shangri La Hotel Paris, the Secret Table, Marignan, the George V, …

The prettiest castles within approximately 50km from Paris are Chateau de Villette, Château de Vaux-le-Vicomte, the Palace of Versailles, and Château Bouffémont.

Shangri-La Paris proposal with luxury decor

Bespoke Eiffel Tower proposals

Full service, white-glove, red carpet package. Expect a ridiculously magical experience personalized to your loved one and the unique relationship you share. A senior Paris planner will be there for you every step of the way … from initial idea generation and the sourcing of core vendors to flawless “day-of” execution. Best-suited for the discerning client who wishes to work with a local expert to design and implement a unique Paris proposal concept. Uncompromising VIP service for those who want it all and don’t typically settle for anything but the best.

Done for You Paris proposal with giant Marry Me Letters

Time-tested, classic Paris proposals packages

Proven and time-tested, relatively budget-friendly marriage proposal packages. Rest assured that of our done-for-you ideas will be stunningly beautiful, romantic, and upscale while allowing for limited customization or upgrades. Best suited for people looking for tried and true romantic proposal ideas they can walk right into.

Eiffel Tower proposal Trocadero with violinist

Paris proposal ideas & concept development

Perhaps you prefer to hire your vendor team and coordinate everything independently from a distance. Or maybe an expert proposal planner does not neatly fit into your budget. Still, you desire ideas that will make your partner deeply fall in love with the Paris engagement forever. In that case, we’ve seen and done it all and will assist you in developing a fantastic concept that works. Best suited for people looking for unique and personalized ideas. They can choose to implement the Paris proposal concept independently or ask us to do so.

Romantic Paris proposal ideas plan a picnic near the Eiffel Towe

Props, décor, and floral design

We have the ideal solution when you want to embellish your proposal setting or hotel suite. Commonly requested services include gorgeous floral designs, oversized Marry Me Letters, hotel suite surprise decoration, private dining or a Champagne table along the Seine, engraved love locks, personalized macarons, and much more. Best suited when you want to rent or purchase luxury decor, adorable floral designs, or accessories to enhance your proposal setting, hotel suite, etc.

When should you hire an experienced and well-connected Paris proposal planner?

Whether to hire a Parisian planner depends on the time you want to commit to the planning process and your budget. Pulling off a destination engagement in the City of Love takes time, effort, and a good understanding of Paris. If you can afford to enlist a local expert who will take the time to understand your vision and ensure that everything goes smoothly, then don’t think twice. Expect to save loads of time and end up with a better experience.

Suppose you intend to make a straightforward public surprise proposal, such as at Trocadero. In that case, you likely don’t need a planner.

Or, perhaps you’re working on a tight proposal budget. Then you probably can’t afford a planner and should invest in an experienced Eiffel Tower proposal photographer who’ll assist you with the basics.

Or maybe you’re incredibly resourceful and don’t mind researching and negotiating with French vendors from thousands of miles away and across time zones. Then, we encourage you to bookmark our complete guide on How to Propose in Paris so you can turn to it again and again.

Book vintage Rolls-Royce for your Paris proposal
Want a vintage Rolls-Royce for your French castle engagement? Well, a resourceful planner will make it happen.

A seasoned marriage proposal planner will help with anything from simple to extraordinary and anything in between. Her job is to listen, inspire you with personalized ideas, organize, and execute. This allows you to shift your focus on what truly matters—enjoying unforgettable moments with your sweetheart in the City of Love.

Frequently requested services include:

  • Identifying the perfect Eiffel Tower proposal location (i.e., exclusive hotel rooftop, private Seine River yacht, or a charming French château);
  • hiring orchestra-level musicians to play your partner’s favorite songs;
  • Imagine and implement dazzling floral designs;
  • Reserve fine dining for the newly engaged;
  • Hotel suite surprise decoration;
  • Eye-catching fireworks;
  • Ensuring professional proposal photos and video;
Surprise your sweetheart with a sea of red roses in your hotel suite.
Surprise your sweetheart with a sea of red roses in your hotel suite, which we can set up while you are out and about getting engaged.

When you work with a premier Paris-based planner, expect her to

  • inspire you with utterly romantic and unique proposal ideas;
  • Save you time and costly missteps by assembling the most professional English-speaking local vendor team;
  • Develop a crystal clear timeline so you and your vendors are always on the same page;
  • streamline things with a single point of contact, resulting in efficient communication and timeline modifications;
  • Make you look like a Rockstar by executing your game plan to perfection.

In summary, you’ll enjoy soothing peace of mind knowing that every detail is covered. You can focus on the only thing that matters—showing your partner undivided attention and love.

How to propose in Paris: Eiffel Tower Marriage Proposal

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— Ondee
Romantic Eiffel Tower proposal photos

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