6 Paris Proposal Tips: By the Gentleman for the Gentleman
This article is written by Brett Krynak, a recent groom who planned his Paris proposal with Kiss Me in Paris. These are his real experiences and lessons learned.
Planning a proposal in Paris means balancing secrecy, timing, and a dash of bravado. I’m Brett—a recent groom who popped the four-word question around sunrise at Trocadéro—and these six lessons will hopefully help you create a memorable and stress-free experience.
Top Eiffel Tower Views for Your Paris Proposal
I chose Trocadéro because nothing else quite matches its sweeping, larger-than-life perspective of the Eiffel Tower. In the hush just before dawn, the iron lacework seems to glow. If crowds worry you, arrive a few minutes before sunrise to secure prime real estate on the platform and enjoy a rare combination of relative privacy and spectacular views.
For a quieter backdrop, the Jardins du Trocadéro (immediately below the main plaza platforms) offer grassy spots that feel surprisingly private while giving you that unmistakable Eiffel Tower proposal silhouette.
Securing Her Family’s Blessing in Advance
Visiting her parents before you book flights shows thoughtfulness—and brings an emotional payoff. I carried the ring (to her parents) in my pocket, spoke from the heart, and then hit record on my phone to capture their blessings.
When Stephanie asked to call her family immediately after I proposed, I played that video instead. Seeing her tears as she heard from her loved ones turned what could have been a brief formality into one of our most treasured memories.
Discreet Ring Transport Tricks
Keeping the diamond engagement ring hidden on an extended trip is easier said than done. My secret weapon was a Lint Roller Diversion Safe I purchased on Amazon. It works like any ordinary lint roller, but inside there’s room for a ring box. I left the roller in plain sight at home for weeks, so Stephanie never questioned when it eventually appeared in my luggage and our shared hotel suite.
If lint rollers aren’t your thing, hollowed-out toiletry bottles or false-bottom cosmetics bags serve the same purpose—anything she’s used to seeing will slip under her radar.
A Gentleman’s Guide to Revealing the Bling
The moment of revelation should feel amazing. I practiced opening the box dozens of times, then added two tiny scuffs on one corner to tell its orientation by touch alone. When the day came, my hands moved confidently, and the focus stayed on my words, effortless eye contact, and not on fumbling with the box.
A quick dry run at home—without an audience—is a good idea.
Engagement Photography Tips in Paris
Your proposal should be remembered in photographs that look cinematic and feel even better than reality. I booked a two-day, seven-hour package with Kiss Me in Paris: the first day started with a Paris Decoy Photoshoot Proposal at sunrise at Trocadéro, then a relaxed evening session around the city’s iconic landmarks and romantic hidden spots.
Our next-day shoot exceeded my expectations—we chose the 2+2 photography package, which combines the best of sunrise with the golden and blue hour at night. Stephanie had time to process being engaged and dress for the occasion (she actually chose our photo spots), and our evening portraits by the illuminated tower became some of our favorites.
If you can fit such a photo adventure into your proposal budget, don’t hesitate—you’ll likely need engagement photos before your wedding anyway, and you might as well get them in this photogenic city while you’re both radiant and on Cloud Nine.
Hiring a Surprise Proposal Photographer
Not all photographers are cut out for live proposals. I reached out with a heartfelt note—no generic inquiries—and made clear that English fluency and discretion were non-negotiable. The right professional asked questions, suggested less crowded vantage points, and treated my engagement like the once-in-a-lifetime event it was.
When interviewing prospective proposal photography studios in Paris, look for genuine curiosity, personalized ideas, and a willingness to help.
Follow this sequence—where to go, whose blessing to get, how to transport and present the ring, then how to capture it all—and you’ll create a heartfelt, stress-free experience as grand as the City of Light itself.
